tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768513537158265476.post6255476828467819533..comments2024-01-27T13:46:28.963+05:30Comments on Tushar Mangl: Space Anyone?Tushar Manglhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08795741590854850287noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768513537158265476.post-71106849727014805942009-04-08T14:24:00.000+05:302009-04-08T14:24:00.000+05:30at the end of the day i feel it is reason that sho...at the end of the day i feel it is reason that should prevail .. regardless of the issue being discussed ... and this needs to be understood .. i have been very lucky to be born in such a family in India... I wish many more would transform ... <BR/>elders need to understand difference of opinion is not disrespect .. it is just a difference of opinion. period. <BR/>youngsters need to appreciate that the advice that is coming our way is not out of nothing but has tons of experience behind it .. give it that respect and weigh it out and then decide whether or not you should accept it. <BR/><BR/>one thing though .. that line " you shall always be a child to me" is not restricted to Indians ..Si_Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10969804220266319770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768513537158265476.post-42352419867646068592009-04-08T13:25:00.000+05:302009-04-08T13:25:00.000+05:30Actuly in our Indian system, their exists a degree...Actuly in our Indian system, their exists a degree of selfishness.<BR/>The boy should be a momma's boy as to who is going to take care of the momma when she is old???<BR/><BR/>he love the style of dominance, as to they expect their children to stay with them and take over the family responsibilities completely.Tushar Manglhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12325557002384888296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768513537158265476.post-30587899400117868732009-04-08T13:24:00.000+05:302009-04-08T13:24:00.000+05:30Actuly in our Indian system, their exists a degree...Actuly in our Indian system, their exists a degree of selfishness.<BR/>The boy should be a momma's boy as to who is going to take care of the momma when she is old???<BR/><BR/>he love the style of dominance, as to they expect their children to stay with them and take over the family responsibilities completely.Tushar Manglhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12325557002384888296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768513537158265476.post-33615483021936595212009-04-08T13:09:00.000+05:302009-04-08T13:09:00.000+05:30ahh.. i too used to crib wen i was young. for spac...ahh.. i too used to crib wen i was young. for space and privacy. but now, i have become used to it :DRichahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14382252401380787038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4768513537158265476.post-25671251076835139242009-04-08T00:43:00.000+05:302009-04-08T00:43:00.000+05:30I second that. I don't mean "giving space" as in l...I second that. I don't mean "giving space" as in letting the children follow their own rules blindly, and in a magnitude that children gradually become isolated from their parents. "Sharing" of physical space, time and emotions...contributes towards the Indian family system the way it is. And I love that. But I'm against over-protectiveness of a child, shielding him from decision making and responsibilities and maybe even the appropriate social interaction with others, will cause a lot of hurdles when he becomes an adult. I love the pampering and protectiveness my parents shower on me, but I also admit that it's to an extent that has limited my day-to-day life as an adult. The transition to adult life, I relied heavily on decisions others made for me, and even in everyday tasks...I needed assistance. Having had a car at my beck and call, while growing up and my parents restricting the use of public transport...I can't even travel alone nowadays or for that matter even hail a cab during rush hour traffic! There can be a lot of inconveniences at various aspects of life due to not giving the optimum "space", that we don't foresee as a child.Dialect Of Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16081719688090897711noreply@blogger.com