Being perpetually nice might seem virtuous, but it often masks repressed anger and leads to spiritual burnout. This article delves into the psychological and spiritual toll of over-giving, the importance of setting boundaries, and practical steps to reclaim your authentic self. Why does anger follow excessive niceness? Have you ever found yourself constantly saying "yes" to requests, even when you're overwhelmed, only to later feel a surge of irritation or resentment? This phenomenon isn't uncommon. When we prioritize others' needs over our own consistently, we suppress our genuine feelings, leading to internal conflict. Over time, this suppression can manifest as anger, often surprising both ourselves and those around us. Psychologically, this is linked to the concept of cognitive dissonance, where our actions don't align with our true feelings, causing mental discomfort. Emotionally, it's akin to filling a bottle with water continuously without...
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