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Did You Ever Love Me? Book Review: Can Rithvik singh turn heartbreak into a homecoming?

Did You Ever Love Me? by Rithvik Singh is a tender contemporary poetry collection about love, heartbreak, longing, self worth and learning to let go. Its greatest strength is emotional accessibility: Singh writes directly to readers who feel intensely and care deeply. The collection offers comfort without pretending heartbreak is simple, though its simplicity may occasionally feel familiar to seasoned poetry readers. Did you Ever Love Me? Have you ever loved someone so completely that, after they left, you were left wondering whether they had ever understood what they had been given? Not merely whether they loved you, but whether they ever noticed how much you loved them, how much patience you offered, how many small things you remembered, or how often you chose to stay when leaving might have been easier. There is a particular loneliness in that question because it rarely arrives at a dramatic moment. More often, it finds you while you are doing something completely ordinary. Yo...

Create Some Knowledge

Two hundred years back we were the second biggest economy in the world and our economy was about 20% of the world's economy. Today we have 20% of the world's population but our economy is just 2% of the world economy.

In contrast the US which was less than 2% of the world economy two hundred years back today is the biggest with a size of over 25% of the world economy.

Why has this happened? Two hundred years is not that long a period. But during this time the fall of India has been drastic. Also importantly how do we get back to our place of eminence in this world?

There are many reasons for our downfall since 1800. We can argue that one prominent reason is British rule. But I think the main reason is that we have stopped creating new knowledge. I have given some numbers on who are the creators of knowledge in this world here. Today we have the largest pool of science and technology qualified people in the world. But our contribution to the knowledge of the world is very small. We have stopped being leaders in the creation of knowledge and have become followers. We have stopped creating new knowledge and have become users of knowledge. But what is knowledge. Knowledge includes means of improving farming, means of producing new goods and services.

How many times have you waited at the bus stop not knowing when the next bus is come? Almost everyday? Now dont you think there can be a service that can automatically determine how far the next bus is from your bus stop. How much time would this save every Indian?

Have you wondered why there is a perpetual crowd of vehicles at our airports and railway stations and why it takes so much time to maneuver through this mess? Dont you think just a few simple steps to manage traffic better would save so much hassle for every Indian.


Knowledge doesnt have to put a rocket on the moon everytime. Look at any successful company they all started out trying to solve simple but relevant problems in innovative ways. All Google wanted to do was to organize the data on the internet. In doing that they became one of the most valuable companies of our times. Good knowledge helps solve everyday problems in innovative ways.

Each one of us has to innovate in our life. We all have to create knowledge to make our lives easier, to grow our economy and get back our rightful place in this world.

[this is a guest post by L. Venkata Subramaniam, do visit his regular blog where he writes on technologies affecting everyday life ]

Comments

Si_Lee said…
hmmmm.. the difference that US has been independent for the 200 odd years we were not is not something that can be brushed aside .. why ? you will ask...
The British rule was not only bout exploitation and oppression.. it also was about them planning to shatter our economic fiber trying to convert us into a plantation economy.... and to a great extent they succeeded. now the scenario is that we live in a country at a time where priority of its people is to earn livelihood first... We may talk about our education system and how there aren't may professions .. but then doesn't the above tell you why ... while what u have said is perfect and it needs to be done .. but it is not priority one for the people .. and it is the peoples' priority that determines and should determine the priority of a democracy
I agree with you that is one reason BUT I think we Indians like to blame everyone else but ourselves....

Anything related to the poverty and development is blamed on the British

Anything related to terrorism and security is blamed on the Pakis

Should we Indians just sit back, watch and blame. Nothing wrong with a laid back attitude as it keeps heart attack away. But what that does is to absolve our own leaders and ourselves of any responsibility to do anything meaningful to change things.
Si_Lee said…
no venkat .. dont sit back at all .. infact wrk towards tht goal ... if you can and ayone who can shud ... I personally am working on a few projects .. tryin to bring about a sea of change ... but then thanks to god i can afford to take a riskier path owing to no financial dependence of my parents on my livelihood .. and their support if tomorrow I fail .. i did not oppose your thought .. it's indeed the right one to have .. i just put forth that there is a realistic reason behind the impact of british rule on us and its nt an escapist's reason.

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