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Self-discovery: The key to true knowledge

Summary: In this diary entry dated 21/08/2006, Tushar Mangl reflects on the concept of knowledge, particularly self-knowledge. He highlights the tendency of people to seek knowledge on various subjects but often neglect the crucial understanding of their own needs, aspirations, and beliefs. Through anecdotes, he explores the significance of self-awareness in making authentic life choices.


Diary Entry

Know Thyself - Socrates
21/08/2006

Knowledge – This is a keyword I aim to present consistently in my writings. I try to enlighten readers through humor, anecdotes, clippings, and other insights. Now, I’m even attempting to draw knowledge out of myself. Here’s a piece of advice for you: gain knowledge. There’s nothing wrong with that. Whatever subject interests you, you have abundant options—be it the internet, books, magazines, newspapers, or friends—all offering a wealth of information.

Self-Discovery: The key to true knowledge

However, there’s one subject that we often overlook: ourselves. My advice to all my readers is to understand themselves better—their desires, needs, thoughts, and mistakes. This area is often neglected. For example, a person may choose a certain career simply because their father said it’s the best option. But what do you truly want from your career? Many don’t even ask themselves this question. This may be why so many people switch careers multiple times.

"He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened." — Lao Tzu

Similarly, a young man might marry a girl his mother chose, without considering what kind of partner would best suit him. Another person might wear trendy jeans, simply because their friends say it’s “in.” But when asked about their favorite clothes, they might respond, "I don’t know."

I  am not saying that self-knowledge will solve all your problems, but it certainly helps. For instance, in recent discussions with family and friends, everyone insisted that I should get a job because it provides financial security. However, I know my path lies in business, where I’m confident I will succeed far more than I would in a traditional job. Although no one agrees with me, I’m certain of my own choice. Knowing oneself is essential; it empowers us to make informed, authentic decisions.

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