In a quiet, mysterious Asian town, Mili, a self-professed “sympathy addict,” yearns for genuine love amidst the enchantment of lush landscapes and eccentric locals. A poignant journey, she faces harsh truths, introspective questions, and surprising warmth along the way. Will she transcend the “sympathy trap” or remain a beggar of borrowed love?
In a place so mystifying it could have existed in a daydream, perched in the fog-draped hills of Valanpur, where wild jasmine bloomed beneath a veiled sky, there lived a young woman named Mili. Valanpur, mind you, was not an ordinary place; it was a town small enough for secrets to survive but large enough for whispers to travel.
And here, under a canopy of lush forests and swaying tamarind trees, Mili—a petite woman with eyes that sparkled with the misplaced audacity of someone searching for love in all the wrong places—was about to confront the thorniest of human desires.
But first, let me make one thing very clear: Mili was no fool, no starry-eyed nincompoop stumbling around with her heart on her sleeve. She was simply—and profoundly—misguided. You see, she had developed a rather ugly habit: she was addicted to sympathy.
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What is it like to desire sympathy so strongly?
Mili would often ask herself questions like this as she sat under the ancient banyan tree that stood at the town's center, its roots sprawling like fingers clawing into the earth. It had been there for generations, holding the collective sighs and whispers of countless hearts.
“Is sympathy not a shade of love?” she pondered aloud, hoping for a confirmation, even a murmur, from the banyan itself.
“But Mili, my dear,” sighed her friend Rohit, a young man with tousled hair and a wit as sharp as the tang of lemongrass, “sympathy is hardly love. It iss a handout of sorts, a favour. They aren’t loving you; they’re just, well… obliging you.”
Mili scoffed, leaning back against the tree and folding her arms with a petulant pout. “Is there truly such a vast difference? When I cry, when I pour my soul out, don’t they…feel for me?”
Rohit chuckled, but his voice softened. “Feel, yes. But love? My dear, love is a riddle they don’t solve by obligation.”
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What is so ugly about wanting sympathy?
Mili sighed heavily, casting her gaze over Valanpur’s expanse. The gentle hills stretched around her like sleepy giants. The fields sparkled with morning dew, and the moist, earthy scent filled the air. The town was encircled by tall sal trees and fragrant sandalwood groves. Here, the monsoon clouds never failed to roll in with divine punctuality, as if conducting a symphony for the soul.
Despite such beauty around her, Mili’s heart seemed to cling to shadows. “I think you are wrong, Rohit. People sympathise because they care. If they didn’t, they would ignore me,” she retorted, perhaps half-believing her words.
Her friend only shook his head, his brow furrowing with an amused pity. “Mili, darling, sympathy is the disguise people wear when they’d rather not go too deep. It is a handkerchief, not a heart.”
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When did Mili first notice her desire for attention?
A flash of memory swept through her mind—a day years back, when she had been a mere girl sitting in her school’s dusty courtyard, a stubbed toe and a tear-streaked face. Oh, how her classmates had gathered around, each offering their comfort, their concern. She had relished that moment, their attention warming her like the golden sun, and since then… well, she had learned the subtle art of looking wounded, of playing the delicate, soulful damsel.
“You are still not a child,” Rohit interrupted her thoughts, half-scolding, half-chuckling. “All this sympathy hoarding makes you a beggar, Mili, a beggar for emotions.”
“A beggar!” she gasped, horrified.
“Yes, a beggar!” He held up his hands, his face the picture of mock horror. “Tell me, do you honestly want to be pitied all your life?”
Her pride stung, Mili glared at him, the heavy clouds now mirroring her mood as they settled ominously over Valanpur. A light drizzle began, scattering soft drops like pearls onto the earth. The soil released its musky perfume, and the delicate scent of frangipani wafted through the air.
“No,” she murmured softly, her voice breaking the silence. “No, I want… I want…” She trailed off, unable to articulate her deepest longing, yet knowing that Rohit, her incorrigible, relentlessly wise friend, understood it all.
Why seek sympathy when you could seek love?
Rohit extended his hand, catching a raindrop on his palm, then looked at her, the softness of his gaze surprising her. “Mili, you deserve love, not charity. You have a mind of your own, a spirit no one can cage. Let them love you for that, not for your tears.”
“But how?” Mili whispered, glancing at him with wide, helpless eyes. “How can I ask for such love when I am… just me?”
Rohit let out a breath of exasperated affection. “By being Mili, of course! The Mili who laughs as wildly as she cries, who dreams madly, who loves deeply without condition.”
“But what if they don’t love me?” she asked, her voice quivering.
“Then you will know, Mili,” he replied, his voice gentler than ever, “that you never truly needed their pity in the first place. Real love doesn’t hesitate. It stands by you, whether you ask for it or not.”
Could a stormy night bring realisation?
That evening, the heavens unleashed a storm as fierce as Mili’s inner turmoil. Thunder roared, and lightning cracked across the sky like a jagged, blinding whip. Valanpur was drenched, its streets transformed into muddy rivulets, and the forests trembled under the onslaught of rain.
In her small cottage nestled near the riverbank, Mili found herself staring at her own reflection in the rain-spattered window. Her hair clung to her face, her eyes red-rimmed from tears that had nothing to do with anyone else’s sympathy.
The storm outside was no match for the tempest within. For the first time, she allowed herself to weep for her own mistakes, her own misplaced desires. Her own heart’s hunger for a love that was real and unwavering.
What changed the next morning?
Morning arrived with an unearthly calm, as if the storm had never existed. The golden rays danced through the soaked leaves, and the entire valley glistened with fresh vigour. Mili stepped outside, inhaling the crisp, earthy scent, feeling lighter than she had in years.
She looked around, noticing every detail—the vibrant green of the plants, the gentle sway of the flowers, and the fresh dew on the jasmine vines that wound around her cottage.
“Mili!” came Rohit’s familiar voice from the edge of the garden.
She turned, and without a word, she hugged him, holding on tightly.
“Oh!” he exclaimed, surprised. “What is this for?”
“For being here,” she said simply. “For loving me, without pity.”
And for the first time, Mili didn’t feel like a beggar. She felt, well… she felt like Mili, just Mili. And somehow, that was enough.
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Tushar Mangl is the author of The Avenging Act and a thought leader on personal finance, Vastu, mental well-being, and green living. With books like Hey Honey Bunch and Ardika under his belt, he writes with passion for a better, balanced society. Follow him for engaging insights that nurture both heart and mind.
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