Ok,,,first things first...Happy Independence Day...as it always happens...today also i got a bit patriotic n a thought process was triggered(hehe,my thought processes are like that toy gun wid da arbitary bullet tied wid a string to da nozzle,,,da same things keep gettin triggered again n again).So i got up,attended my morning chem tuition...during dat whole tym i didn wish anybody...i know its nthin to be proud of...its just didn't come as naturally as a birthday wish for sum1 comes...finally got 2 smses wishin independence day...pata nai kyun aisa lag raha tha ki 50% of da ppl sittin dere at da tuition were not even consciously aware ki aaj chutti kyun hai...i always feel dat hearing da same thing over n over again reduces its im
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