And I also see that when such an incident happens what do the politicians do? They just don't leave any chance of criticizing the Govt. This shows that how much inhuman we have become. When so many lost their lives how can you just be bothered about the vote bank. Height of selfishness!!!!
We Indians happily announce our unity in diversity but I really don't think we have any unity.
We all want to be called Christians, Hindus, Sikhs, Muslims then Upites, Keralites, Maharastrians...etc. When will we be wanting to be called Indians ... Bharatiya!
Kya hume zara si bhi sharm hai ki humne insaaniyat ko iss hadh tak neeche gira diya.
Why do we fight on the name of God? Kya Bhagwaan ye chahte hai?
Every Religion has so many rich knowledge in it.
I come from a very prayerful christian family but still
when I was small I used to go to the Temple daily without a miss.
You know One of my friend's was a Muslim I once went to the Dargah and what I wished was fulfilled.
You know during my tenth Board exams before each exam I and my friends used to Go to the Gurudwara and pray.
Agar mein ye sab kar sakti hoon toh aap sab bhi kar sakte ho. Why not extract the best knowledge from every religion and follow it.
Please pray for the victims and people as such. This is a very sad situation very sad.
ps:)this was an honest appeal but if I hurt anybody's religious feelings please let me know.
Btw i too have a social blog which discusses issues I feel are awful. HERE
What It Means to Become a Sanctuary for others
There is a quiet kind of heroism in this world. It does not wear capes. It does not trend online. It does not even announce itself when it enters a room. It simply sits down beside you and says, “I am here.”
To become a sanctuary for others is not about fixing their storms. It is about becoming the bench they can collapse on while the rain is still falling.
We often imagine strength as something loud. But real sanctuary is soft. It is the friend who listens without checking the time. The parent who understands that silence sometimes speaks louder than advice. The colleague who notices the trembling behind a brave smile and does not look away.
Sanctuary is not built from grand gestures. It is built from presence.
It Begins with Listening Without Repairing
Most of us are terrible at listening. We interrupt. We correct. We offer solutions before the story has even finished breathing. We want to help, but we often end up rearranging someone else’s pain to make it more comfortable for ourselves.
Becoming a sanctuary means resisting that urge.
It means allowing someone to unravel without rushing to knit them back together. It means sitting with their confusion, their anger, their grief, without turning it into a lesson.
Have you ever noticed how rare it is to feel truly heard? How your shoulders drop when someone says, “Tell me more,” and actually means it?
That is sanctuary. It is the art of saying, “You are not too much.”
It Requires Courage, Not Perfection
Sanctuary is not built by flawless people. It is built by those who are willing to show their cracks. When we admit our own fears and failures, we quietly give others permission to be human.
There is something sacred about shared vulnerability. When someone realises they do not have to pretend around you, a door opens. And behind that door is relief.
But here is the difficult part. Becoming a sanctuary does not mean absorbing everyone’s pain until you disappear. It means holding space without losing yourself inside it. Boundaries are not barriers. They are foundations. Even churches have walls.
If you burn yourself to keep others warm, you will eventually become ashes. And ashes cannot shelter anyone.
It Is About Consistency in Small Things
Sanctuary is rarely dramatic. It is answering the call. It is remembering the detail. It is showing up again and again, especially when it is inconvenient.
It is telling your child, “I am proud of you,” even when they fail. It is telling your partner, “You can be honest with me,” and meaning it. It is offering tea before advice.
In a world that measures worth by achievement, sanctuary measures worth by existence.
To become a sanctuary is to say: you do not have to earn your place here.
And perhaps the most beautiful truth of all is this. When you become a sanctuary for others, you often discover you have built one for yourself as well. Because love given without performance has a way of circling back home.
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thanx buddy
thanx frnd
My post G-D fucktor says it all, i think.
But I still am against the basic concept of religion itself, but of course, everything can be utilised for the good...that remains..n thats why i love the believers and the non believers equally well...
ya wat u said is very true and ya if everyone thinks like u then there will be no such an agony.
But do all think like u? no na?
thanx for coming here on my request and btw i knew tat was a wrong typos
coz it happens very often with me too.
yep man,i knew you would understand they were typos,but some people do possess the idiocy(pardon me for the strong words) to call it my 'poor skills' in language and pin me down on such petty mistakes yeh know :(
ya u r correct sum ppl are really too much catch others on such petty issues ignoring the main ones.
yes in that case it was right on ur part to publish the second comment.
Thank you so much.
A very insightful post indeed.
hey its fine and thanx